Why do we need to heal? We often hear people saying, I need to heal from this and that, but the word in itself has been misused. If there was a physical ailment, an illness or a disorder, it is understandable that one needs time to heal.
We, as thinking animals, also suffer from another ailment from which we cannot heal—overthinking and overanalysing!
I have been suffering from it for quite some time and it has been brought to my notice that people around me suffer a lot more than I do (coz of my overthinking). But what if the answer to not being able to heal is as simple as this- There is nothing to heal when the very ailment comes from a part of you?
Things not going your way
We all have days, weeks and even months when what we plan does not happen. It makes you feel deserted as if you have failed. There does not seem to be light at the end of the tunnel! But in no way is your life-ending. Wake up and make up new plans!
Problems in life
There will always be some problem in your life. Obstacles that blindsight you, but that is again not the end of the world. You do not need to feel physically ill. Accept it and move ahead. There are other days to conquer and a lifetime of problems to look in the eye and say- Bring it on! I am ready!
Your Nature
Your nature springs from the very core of your being! It is hard to change. It is what makes you -You. So why would you like to heal yourself of the very being you have been for so many years?
Healing is a physical process. You can even heal a broken heart (technically, the heart never breaks). But the term we are looking for here is – Being responsible and moving on! Don’t heal from the things that do not need it in the first place. Be confident, be strong, move ahead and live!
A mother of two, Preeti Bhandari is a colloquial writer. She believes in simple living which reflects in her writings. As the Editor of Narisakti, she intends to use her vast experience to propel this platform to a cult status among entrepreneurial networks. When not writing she is quilling, both with paper and thoughts.
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