Why should I deal with it?

A man has every right to question- Why should I deal with you? If I am giving my heart and mind and still have been asked to deal with it, what more can I do?

In continuation with a previous article from a man’s perspective.

As a woman, if I have the right to change my mind constantly and to simply demand attention and behave like a child anytime, what does a man need to do? Having a contract in the name of the friendship/relationship enough? What I may like today; is it not possible that I might not like it anymore tomorrow? People grow and evolve! It is a very basic nature. But at the same time a person’s core values and nature does not change. So, in order for the relationship to evolve and grow does it have to be nude! Bare the soul and then grow together from there.

A man is not a punching bag, he should not be the one to deal with it. There is no sure shot way of knowing how the relationship is going to be in the future (no one can predict that). The way to treat the man right is to stop being who you are not. Why should anyone have to see the mask? Why should a man be the one to suffer and pick up the pieces after the hurricane?

What if the tables were turned and the woman had to deal with a man, we would crib all day long and then feel bad for being treated poorly? In the relationship let it grow and take its natural course. Don’t put the burden on one. Don’t let the other one have to ‘deal with it’. Instead, be your true self, even when the sky is dark, the light will only shine because the sun does not decide to leave. It stays shining always.

Richard Gere in the Runaway Bride says- “Look, I guarantee there’ll be tough times. I guarantee that at some point, one or both of us is gonna want to get out of this thing. But I also guarantee that if I don’t ask you to be mine, I’ll regret it for the rest of my life, because I know, in my heart, you’re the only one for me.”