New Radicals were absolutely right when they said –
“Don’t give up
You’ve got a reason to live
Can’t forget
We only get what we give.”
The kind of energy you give to the universe is what you will get. If you wake up with a smile and believe that the day is going to be good, you will find all the goodness, but if you wake up with a foul mood, your surroundings will pull you down even further. Your intentions and your actions, positive or negative, have a way of impacting you.
It is, after all, in your hands how the day will proceed.
1. Creating space
The energies that we give out have a way of coming back to us; it’s a ripple effect. The energies not only come back, but sometimes they multiply as well. Thus, it is very important to make sure you create space in your head to receive the energies, too. If your mind is always filled with self-doubt and negative thoughts, you do not have any space to receive any good that is coming your way. When you give only negative energies the people around you have a limit as to how much they can absorb the negative energies. At this point it is imperative that you radiate positive vibrations and believe that it will be positivity that you will receive!
Cultivating good efforts brings better results!
2. Life is a mirror
While looking in the mirror, do you see someone who is not standing there, or do you see a true image?
Life is just like that. If you put in minimum effort, how can you expect to get maximum results? Small intentions and efforts compound over time and you receive a gift that you deserve.
3. Give but never overgive
As humans, we also tend to overgive. We overspend our energies on people and things where we will never get anything back. But you must also learn to see where the effort is not for the wrong person who knows how to take and will never give anything in return. It will only drain you and when you tolerate and adapt to such energies, your light will never get brighter. It will dim and fade out.
Saying no is also a part of what you give.
Audit, adjust and learn. You are doing better than you think. Just keep your head up and believe that all the good you do will have a positive impact on your life. Wake up with the brightness and sleep with gratitude and believe that everything you give out will come back multifold.
A mother of two, Preeti Bhandari is a colloquial writer. She believes in simple living which reflects in her writings. As the Editor of Narisakti, she intends to use her vast experience to propel this platform to a cult status among entrepreneurial networks. When not writing she is quilling, both with paper and thoughts.